Boudoir Photography Testimonials From Real Women
Choosing a boudoir experience can feel exciting, nerve-wracking and deeply personal.
Many of Sarah’s clients arrived feeling exactly that way. Unsure what to expect, worried about how they would look, or convinced they would not know what to do in front of the camera.
These are their experiences.
65 Google Reviews
4.7 Average Rating
Established 2010
Private East Sussex Studio
What Sarah’s Clients Say
“What a wonderful experience!! I was nervous and distracted when I got there as my kitten had gone missing but Sarah and Melly were wonderful. They helped me relax, kept letting me stop to check if she was back. Being disabled they adapted poses so that I could do them and made me feel so much better about myself by the time I left. The photos were mind blowing. If you have been thinking about doing this my advice is do it. Not only did I have a great time but I left feeling relaxed and like I had met long lost relatives xxxx”
“Breaking my hip and turning 60 gave me a crisis of confidence and I felt that I lost myself. I came across Sarah Tate Photography on social media and thought a boudoir photo shoot might help! I entered a competition, explaining why I thought I should win a photo shoot and Sarah got in touch to say I’d been chosen!
I went for an initial visit and Sarah explained how it all worked. The makeover and shoot were free and she gave me £200 off any products. Sarah immediately put me at ease and we discussed possible outfits. I booked my session and felt nervous and excited in the lead up to it.
On the day, I arrived at the studio and Sarah’s daughter did my hair and makeup beautifully. She then disappeared and Sarah and I worked together to plan the outfit combinations. We then started the photo session. I felt completely calm and confident throughout, and Sarah adapted some poses to account for my stiff shoulders, dodgy knee and recovering hip!
After the session, Sarah went off to edit the photos, then I saw my photos on a big screen. Luckily, she had tissues because it was an incredibly moving experience. I saw myself properly for the first time in decades. The photos were beautiful, with different backgrounds and lighting. I felt like a film star!
I’m so glad I did the photo shoot. It was a wonderful experience and I have a sumptuous album to remind myself how beautiful I felt that day. My husband loves the pictures too!
I can’t recommend Sarah highly enough.”
“I had the most amazing experience today with Sarah, she was extremely kind and patient with me, reassuring me that I would be fine and that my husband was able to stay and help me, she was also very complementary of my outfit choices and accessories often say “ this outfit is amazing and looks so good on you Claire “. I came away feeling confident and on cloud nine with choices of photos that I have picked.”
“Fantastic experience from first contact to receiving my beautiful album. At the initial meeting Sarah explained everything clearly and gave me ideas to think about what I wanted.
On the day of the shoot Sarah and her daughter (sorry forgotten your name) quickly put me at ease. My hair and makeup were stunning, not overdone, just the best version of me.
Having the actual photos taken was the best fun and by the end I was so relaxed that I happily bared (nearly!) all. After a short break Sarah was back with the photos, choosing was a really simple process and I am so pleased with my finished album, it is really good quality.
Overall it was a great experience, it has really boosted my confidence and I would recommend it to anyone.”
“Thank you for the shot today, I was totally nervous, but you put my mind at ease instantly, you made me feel welcome , the photos came out amazing, talking me through each picture and what would look good together in a frame, I am actually very proud of myself and that’s down to you both. Thank you again”
Read Their Full Stories
Some experiences deserve more than a few lines.
These client stories go deeper into why they booked, how they felt before the session, what the experience was really like and how they felt when they saw themselves afterwards.
That gives a potential client something much more powerful than a quote. It lets them recognise themselves in somebody else’s journey.
Beyond Breast Cancer: Meet the New You
A deeply personal story about confidence, identity and rediscovering yourself after breast cancer.
You Grew Wings, Not Just Wrinkles
A story about ageing, motherhood, confidence and rediscovering the woman you have become, rather than wishing for the woman you used to be.
From Mum of 4 to Empowered Woman
A powerful story about finding yourself again after years of putting everyone else first, and rediscovering confidence, strength and the woman behind the role of “Mum.”
What Clients Consistently Tell Us
Every client arrives with different reasons for booking, different worries and different expectations. But across Sarah’s reviews and client stories, the same themes come up again and again.
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The nerves usually arrive before the session. Once clients are in the studio and understand how everything works, that anxiety starts to disappear.
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Sarah guides every step, from posture and positioning to expressions and small movements, so clients are never left wondering what to do.
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The experience is designed around the individual, with time to settle in, ask questions and move at a pace that feels comfortable.
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Privacy, discretion and personal boundaries are treated as part of the experience, not as an afterthought.
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Many clients begin the day feeling self-conscious. As the shoot progresses, they often describe becoming more relaxed, playful and confident.
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For many women, the biggest surprise comes at the image reveal. They do not see somebody else in the photographs. They see themselves with a confidence they had forgotten was there.
You do not need to arrive confident. That is part of the journey.
Why Clients Feel Comfortable With Sarah
For many clients, feeling comfortable matters just as much as the photographs themselves.
Sarah’s approach is built around privacy, guidance and making sure you always feel in control of your experience.
Private East Sussex Studio
Your session takes place in a private studio environment where the focus is completely on you. There are no shared sessions, no audience and no pressure to perform.
Your Boundaries Come First
Your comfort level is discussed before and during the session. Nothing is assumed, and you are never expected to do anything that does not feel right for you.
Fully Guided Photography
You do not need to know how to pose or what to do in front of the camera. Sarah guides you throughout, helping with positioning, expression and movement so you are never left wondering what comes next.
Your Images Stay Private
Your photographs are treated with discretion and are never shared publicly without your permission.
You are always in control of your experience.
Frequently Asked Questions
It is completely normal to have questions before booking a boudoir experience. Here are a few of the things Sarah is asked most often.
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No. Most of Sarah’s clients have never done anything like this before. Sarah guides you throughout the session, including posing, positioning, expression and movement.
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That is completely normal. Many clients arrive feeling nervous or unsure of what to expect. The experience is designed to help you settle in gradually, with plenty of guidance and no pressure to rush.
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Only with your explicit permission. Your images remain private unless you have clearly agreed that Sarah can share them.
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Yes. Sarah offers a free, no-pressure discovery call where you can ask questions, discuss any concerns and find out whether the experience feels right for you.
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No. Sarah provides styling and outfit guidance before your session, so you can choose clothing and lingerie that feels comfortable and reflects the look you want to create.
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You do not need to look or feel a certain way to book a boudoir experience. Sarah works with women of different ages, shapes and confidence levels and will guide the session around you.
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No. Your boundaries and comfort always come first. Nothing is assumed, and you remain in control throughout the experience.
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Your session takes place at Sarah’s private studio in East Sussex, giving you a discreet and comfortable environment for the entire experience.
Ready to See Yourself Differently?
You do not need to arrive feeling confident, know how to pose or have everything figured out before you book.
Most of Sarah’s clients started with questions, nerves or doubts about whether boudoir was really for them. The first step is simply having a conversation.
Book a free, no-pressure discovery call with Sarah to talk through the experience, ask anything you need to and decide whether it feels right for you.
No pressure. No obligation. Just a relaxed conversation about what you would like from your experience.